No matter how long a man tries to hide his true identity with good looks, it would surely re-surface at a moment he never expects it to.
Looks can be deceptive in a mysterious way. It is a heart-breaking experience, when a close friend of many years or your partner, later turns out to be someone who you thought you knew at some point.
Though, it is a common phenomenon in some tribes in Nigeria. A lady might wear a deceptive look when in a relationship. She pretends to be nice to a fault, just to get her lover’s attention. He on the other hand, gets blind-folded by her gentle attitude and decide to take her to his parents.
Once she finally settles down with him as his wife, those hidden traits starts re-surfacing gradually. She suddenly becomes a lioness in her home and may probably chase off her in laws.
Apart from the ladies in general, guys have theirs. The issues mostly linked with them are; women, drinks and smoking. It is generally believed that “a man who doesn’t drink and smoke, womanizes. While, those who drink and smoke, doesn’t womanize”. But has anyone ever considered the possibility of most men doing all three?
I have carefully listed out certain turn-offs I have when it comes to people who portray a deceptive character. They are;
1. Men who believe that as a man, they are entitled to as many women as they want.
2. Men who, your words never seem to have a meaning in any conversation.
3. Men who regard women as being inferior.
4. Women who pretend to be nice to you, even when they dislike you.
5. Women who speak ill of you at your back.
6. Women who just for no reason can’t stand your guts, either because you are more pretty or you have something they don’t.
Though I’ve been able to mention but a few. I do wish people from different tribes, wouldn’t get themselves entangled in their beliefs and traditions.
If you can’t stick to your partner as a married man, then don’t get married. Remain a single man and live the free life you desire.
As of the women, don’t get married if you can’t stand the idea of having your in laws pay you a visit.
To all the singles out there, don’t play the deceptive role in your relationship. As enjoyable as it is to be deceptive, the aftermath of your actions now, would be far greater than what you did.