Having a child is the dream of every family. A lot is expected from a couple once they get married. Pressure is mounted on the couples by in laws and immediate family members, when the cries of a baby hasn’t been heard after a year of being married. When the woman takes in, both families rejoice and keep their fingers crossed, waiting and praying for the arrival of the baby.
The cries of a baby is heard after 9 months of being pregnant. Before the baby is born, the woman undergoes a bitter-sweet experience of labor before delivery. During this period, she undergoes pains that are unbearable, but lessens after the birth of her baby. Family members and in laws pray while she is in the delivery ward. Those who never pray naturally, are seen praying far more than those who do. Smiles are seen on the faces of everyone once they hear the good news of both mother and child coming out safely.
But the greatest joy is experienced by the mother because she went into the delivery ward with pains and came out with a bundle of joy. The father of the baby is someone else who is filled with Joy. At that moment, he dials every number he has in his contacts, to inform his friends and family of the good news. It is this period that fathers show the most caring side of them. Family members of both the man and woman display affection to the highest level.
So, my advice to every one out there is, never see a pregnancy or the birth of a baby as a mistake because no one on planet earth is a mistake. We are all specially made and have our various purposes in life. Children are a blessing form God and should always be seen as one. There are so many folks out there who would do just about anything to have what you have. Learn to cherish what you have and speak positive words into your children’s lives. For they are given to each parent as a blessing and not the opposite.